Tomatoes grow in your garden or the boxing ring. I prefer the garden. As a part time pacifist, and never a pugilist, unless it was in our basement, or on the baseball field, or on recess, or in a high school hallway, or in a parking lot, I always preferred fresh tomatoes out of a garden (as opposed to fighting) with bacon, mayo, properly toasted bread and lettuce. It seems to win every time.
Happiness is hard to come by these days. but a good BLT will make you forget the unhappiness for more than a minute, especially if you can share it with a friend.